The Opposite of a Fence

A few years back I was leading a writing workshop. One of the exercises I gave to the group was to respond to the question, "What is the opposite of a fence?" I participated in this exercise as well, and what follows was my response:

A fence keeps out, so the opposite must bring in.

So is the opposite of a fence a hug?

Or is it your eyes looking into my eyes

telling me that it is safe to come close?

A fence separates, so the opposite of a fence must bring together.

Is the opposite an apology?

Or is it your acceptance and mercy

when I say I'm sorry and really mean it?

A fence divides properties,

so the opposite must share properties.

Is the opposite a gift?

Or is it your open hand of friendship?

A fence keeps things in, so the opposite must release things.

Is the opposite a key?

Or is it that one word from you

that frees my heart?

Your all-embracing acceptance and mercy,

the great gift of your life

-- your friendship even --

this is the key that unfences my heart.

Thank you, Jesus, for being the opposite of a fence.

Although this isn't exactly about motherhood, I want my son to understand fences in this way.